Host Your Own Plant Swap

Searching for that plant treasure

A friend on Facebook asked me if I could help her with how to go about organizing a plant swap.  It's pretty easy to host a swap but there are some basic things that really help to make these events go much smoother and make them more fun for participants.

First let me say that plant swaps are absolutely a blast and if you garden and have never been to one you are missing out.  They are a great way to connect with other gardeners and get free plants, seeds and other garden related items...like tips on how to grow stuff!  I remember when I began gardening and how befuddled I felt at times so I always invite those who are brand new to gardening to just come and be encouraged and so they can start building their garden plant collection.  It's amazing the blessing this is to them and to the experienced gardeners who get to help invest in their success.

One of the hardest decisions...which seeds to take home

Here's my punch list of ideas and tips...

• Give it a name - Seed swap, plant swap, gardener's swap; they all help to describe your event to those who will be attending.  I personally prefer "Gardener's Swap" as it opens up the swapping to the broadest range of items.  Truth be told, whatever the name, veteran swappers know what is good for swapping and often will bring it anyway.
  (See below for ideas on what to bring and what isn't recommended.)

• Where to hold the event - I recommend you host it at your own home if you have the space.  (Your garden doesn't need to be show ready, this is a swap, not a garden tour.)  You will need space for everyone to set up their stash of plants and also a comfortable space for sitting down to visit.  Having a place to sit and visit helps folks feel welcome.  If you don't have that kind of room, consider asking a friend who gardens if they might be interested in having one at their house with your help.

• Set a date and time - Spring and fall are the best seasons to host a swap, though you could have one virtually any time, like a seed, garden book and tool swap in mid winter.  Most swaps happen on the weekend but you could be a rebel and have one on a week night.  Just be sure you set a scheduled time for the event.  Four hours is good for the daytime events if you have a pot luck, an evening swap might only go two or three hours at most.  Or maybe have a one hour "Gardener's Madness Swap".  A woman in my area does that and I hear a lot of folks turn out for it.  Quick and dirty plant swapping for the swapper on a tight schedule.

• Get the word out - People won't come if they don't know about your event. Yahoo Groups, Gardenweb, Dave's Garden, Twitter and Facebook groups are just a few places to get the word out online.  Community bulletin boards in grocery stores or cafes are great places to invite the community as are local news papers, and even local broadcast news community events calendars (some restrictions may apply) can work too.  These broadcast invitations are for those who have the space for what could possibly turn out to be a large crowd and.or who enjoy meeting strangers.  However you do it be sure the RSVP for attendance is highlighted so folks will be more likely to let you know they are coming. I know people don't always RSVP, but it will help to give you an idea on the approximate number of guests you'll need to set up for.  For smaller events or for that quaint feeling, consider handing out or mailing paper invitations. These are great, but they do take some time create and you'll have to pay for postage if you mail them.  Not a big deal but takes more effort.

• PR Notice or invitation - If you are using public media of any kind you will need to include the following:  Name of the event, date, time, place, if it is potluck or if food is provided, basic guidelines (simple version), an RSVP request if a "closed" event and CONTACT INFORMATION for more information.  If you don't care if you have fifty people show up and have the space you can forgo the RSVP portion.

• Dogs and children - as much as we love them this sometimes won't work to have them at these events.  For instance I live on a very busy street and especially with dogs it can be a dangerous thing.  And we have a grumpy old cat who is not dog friendly.  Need I say more.  Children are fine as long as the parents understand that other guests and myself are not responsible for watching them while they swap and the child needs to be having a good time.  We want everyone to have a fun and safe time!

• Available Restroom! - It goes without saying that people will need to use the toilet, so be sure it is available to them.  I say this because I attended a swap once where there wasn't a toilet available to the guests.  As luck would have it I needed to use one and had to leave the swap.  Well, it was far enough away I decided it wasn't worth going back.  (Sad, sad, sad)

• Weather Concerns - Be sure to have a place for people to get out of the rain or the heat of the sun if need be.  If it's hot, fans are nice to have around, and if it's cold, someplace to warm up is nice too. I use one of those big tents that you can park a car under ("Autoshade" tent) with sides on it. It's about 12' x 20' and works really well for swap events because it has room chairs, some tables too and is a good place to set up the refreshments or other food. If it's raining please provide a dry location for seeds and books or other things that rain might damage.

Under the big top where we swapped seeds and ate pot luck

• Plan for refreshments or a potluck - Hey food is a great thing!  Gardeners LOVE to eat when they get together, something worth considering when making your plans.  It can be potluck or if you are up to it you can provide the food yourself.  It can be a brunch, lunch, dinner, just snacks or maybe even a yummy dessert (a pie party is fun).  At minimum you should supplying your guests with something to drink.  Anything you offer will help them feel more welcome and hang around a bit longer.  It doesn't need to be fancy, simple works best as hosting a swap can be a lot of work so don't try to do too much yourself.

The guys getting ready to barbeque burgers and brauts

• Designated Swap Area Set-up - Most swaps are set up with everyone's things kept in their own separate little space. You don't have to provide tables though it is nice if you have them to provide.  I did a swap once with plants set up in categories instead of by owners...it worked great too and helped folks in making their choices.  Just be sure if you do it this way that everyone is on board with it.  Some swappers are rather persnickety about such things and like to keep control of their stash.

• Seed Swap Station - Because they need to stay dry these are usually set up on a table under cover.  It helps to encourage seed swappers to bring extra envelopes so people can take a bit of this or that seed home with them.  As host it's nice if you supply a few pens and pencils too.

The main swap area out and cruising swappers

• "Pre-Swap Trades" area.  Unless people want to hold things at their cars be sure to have an area ready that is for any swaps that people planned ahead of time and lets everyone else know the plants are off limits unless their name is on them.  Include a sign of some kind to keep others out of these plants as they are usually more rare or desirable or limited in number which is why this type of trading is done.

• Name Tags - We love to hate them but at swaps they are very handy since you will have a lot of strangers meeting each other for the first time.

• Provide extra tags and marking pens - They don't have to be fancy just whatever you have that people can mark their plants with should they need to...and someone always needs to.

• Basic Swap Event Guidelines for Participants - This is very important and will help to keep everyone on the same page (hopefully) as to what is expected of them and what you will be providing for them. 

• What folks can swap:  Plants, seeds, extra tools, planting containers, garden trellises, garden art, gardening magazines and books etc.

• No Invasive plants and chemicals!  Both of these are troublesome to deal with...trust me. As far as the invasive plants if someone does bring one, make it a teaching moment and not a point of condemnation.  It is surprising how many people don't know what plants are invasive and even against the law to transplant.  (English Ivy is one such plant here but I still see it at swaps every so often.)

• Participants are urged to have an ID tag with each plant they are swapping.  This alleviates a lot frustration for them and the host and others who need to know what that crazy pink daisy is called at Sally's table.  Encourage them to do the best they can if they ask and assure them that if they they don't know the name that they just need to bring tags and someone at the event will help ID the plant(s) and they get to write the tags up.  (Be perpared to offer extra ID tags for those who won't have any too...within reason of course.)  TIPS: If they can snap a photo and send it to you for identification before hand or ask their friends via social media that will help to avoid the last minute rush all together!   Write the ID tags up using #2 pencil or a UV-stable marker (Sharpie makes an industrial pen that is UV-stable).  I wholly do not recommend using ball point pen or other markers as they tend to fade very quickly (within 30 days). 

• Pre-Swap Trades - These are set up prior to the event between people who want to secure trades of specific plants prior to the event, for pick up on that day. This is a common practice in plant swapping communities and some of our best swapping is done this way.  These swaps need to be honored by all attending swappers and should be done early to avoid confusion as to which plants are up for grabs.  It can be confusion to some even if you do have a separate area set up or plants marked.

Next time I separate the promised plants out.

• Have pre-swap trades marked with recipient's name before getting to the swap! VERY IMPORTANT as this will save a ton of headaches.  The last swap I attended I didn't do it and it caused me undo stress as swappers descended on my offerings and tried to lay claim to those promised plants.  I felt bad having to tell them no but a promise is a promise.

• Swap Etiquette -  Always ask before taking a plant and don't assume you can just grab what's in the pile.   It's good to remind people about this the day of the event as swapping creates so much excitement sometimes people forget and get a little nutty with plant lust.

The host's swap offerings, plants and a tour

• Open Swap Time After everyone has gone around gathering up plants they want it's often good to have a time where anything and everything can just be scooped up by folks.  Allow people some time to set back any plants they don't wish to be in the Open Swap time.  This can be a great time for new gardeners to get a boatload of goodies for their garden that are maybe more common and things the more seasoned gardener already has or maybe those plants that are just simple to grow.

• Swap Schedule - Set up a loose schedule of when things will be happening.  Pre-swapping for the first hour, (those who aren't participating can have coffee and a snack or just chat and drool over everyone's treasures).  Next open up the general swap and finally open swap.  Have breaks in between and call folks to the table for food.  These are just basic guidelines, you can do it however it feels right to you but this is how many of the swaps I've been to have done things and it works pretty well.

Another idea I have seen work really well is to plan an area for plants that are good for new gardeners to grow.  We all have plants that will fit in this category and there is almost always a new gardener that shows up at a swap needing plants and your sage garden wisdom.  Its a great way to encourage and invest in their success.

As a long time gardener there have been times I have gone to swaps and not taken home a single thing but went simply to get rid of excess plants.  This is so much fun to do as I get to really take time to visit with people and it's so much fun watching others enjoy their new found treasures.  I highly recommend trying it sometimes.

Well, that's about it.  If you have questions please leave them in the comments below. 
Have fun and happy swapping!

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Low Tech Lavender Propagation

English Lavender branch

Do you have lanky lavenders and can't do a thing with them?  Are you planning on pruning them but waiting until you find a way to reuse those branches?  Well I have good news!  You don't have to toss those cuttings into the compost heap, you can root them instead!

Whacking back a potted lavender

Here is a very simple propagation technique that gardeners have been doing since Methuselah was a baby and all it takes are some of those branches you just pruned off, a shovel, a spot of sunny soil to plant them in and...some patience.  Seriously, I'm not kidding, that's it.  You have got to give this a try.  When I first found out about this it really amazed me that it could be this simple.  Here, let me show you what I mean.

As simple as sticking it in a hole really!

Some of you may be familiar with the propagation technique called layering, where you pin a branch of a shrubby plant to the ground while it is still attached to the main plant, cover it with a bit of soil and wait.  Well this is sort of like that.  Last spring I cut a branch off of one of my lavenders and basically just stuck it in the garden with a little water and a little prayer and walked away.

The woman who taught me this method says branches that are 12 inches long work best...I think she may be right, but who knows.  Anyway my cutting was more like 8 inches long.  After cutting off the branch I pulled all the leaves off except the few at the top that would form the base structure of what would become my new lavender plant.

Snug as a bug in the mud

Out to the veggie garden I went, cut branch in hand, to dig a nice deep hole for the little branch.  It needed to be buried right up to it's neck, just below where the leaves stopped, and settled in with a little water.  The last step proved to be the trickiest...walking away and forgetting about it.  It became like trying not to peek at a present and having to stare at for days and it just went on and on, all through the summer and into the fall until finally it was winter and I got some relief from not having to see it as often.  And NO, I did not peek, not once!

Eeek! Are those new leaves? Wait, I just planted it!

Fall was the hardest season for me because I just knew there were roots forming down there and I am too curious for my own good sometimes.  If I dug up the cutting to peek I knew I would risk injuring the new roots which would mean I just killed another one.  I can't count the number of plant starts I have killed with anxious curiosity.  (Ugh.)  This would been so much easier if it would have been stuck in the ground where I wanted to plant a lavender.  One could grow a whole hedge of lavender that way.

Small roots but they'll grow

So the end of March came and it was time to dig it up. (Yippee, I can open my present!)  When I lifted it out of the soil I saw the roots were not as well formed as I had hoped.  Two meager roots had formed at the base of the branch and some nicer looking feeder roots up near the top.  I took a chance and cut off the lower section and again said my prayers and planted it up in a pot of potting soil so it could get a better chance of thriving if it was going to at all.

Please God, let it grow up strong and healthy

Answered prayer in the form of bright green new growth.

Today my baby lavender has more new leaves forming...a very good sign. I will be leaving it in this little container most of the summer just to be sure and pinching it back a couple of times to help keep it nice and shrubby.

So the next time you prune your lavender give this a try and let us know how it goes.

Happy Gardening!


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True Beauty Under Pressure

Who you lookin' at in that tone of voice

Recently we have all been reminded of how the media pushes it's twisted definition of beauty at us women.  A magazine at the checkout counter last week revealed what a few well known celebrities look like without their make up. (shock!)  This type of so-called-news always makes me wonder why we would even waste our time and money on it.  Does it make us feel better about our own less than perfect images?  I don't think so.  What they know we will be tempted to do is mock how normal and plain they look without makeup and further drive their false definition of beauty into our souls.

A few days later came the cruel attack on Ashley Judd's appearance.  Personally I admire Ashley Judd for going natural in her aging process and say more power to her.  When the media started hacking away at the way she looks I started shouting at the reporter on television and waving my my hand at them to go away!  (yes I really did) "LIKE WE CARE!  GET REAL!  LEAVE HER ALONE!".  I am so against this kind of derogatory news it makes me want to pinch heads off!  It serves no good purpose in anyone's life...not even to make one feel better about one's own sad life.

Why does the media and now social media continue to do this?  Because they know it affects us, they know it feeds some low desire in us.  Do you get the picture?  The good news is that we women also have leverage to fight back!

I bet you smiled back!

Being a rather realistic person, I know my face is not the kind to ever launch a thousand ships, but it might launch a dingy.  And though it is not a pretty face, it is a handsomely beautiful face and I have thankfully learned to love it without needing makeup on to do so.

I have my Facebook friend and blogger Pamela Price, who writes Red, White and Grew, to thank for inspiring me with her post supporting Ashley Judd.  In it she decided to post an image of herself as she "really" looks, bare faced and hair hidden.  I loved it and I decided to join in and do the same.  Us girls have to stick together, especially on this topic.

Here is the quote from Ms. Judd that Pam posted on the subject and what got us both going.

"The Conversation about women’s bodies exists largely outside of us, while it is also directed at (and marketed to) us, and used to define and control us. The Conversation about women happens everywhere, publicly and privately. We are described and detailed, our faces and bodies analyzed and picked apart, our worth ascertained and ascribed based on the reduction of person hood to simple physical objectification. Our voices, our person hood, our potential, and our accomplishments are regularly minimized and muted."  (Read her entire article here)

That did it for me and I was in to post my own photos.  However, after thinking about taking my own naked faced, hairless photos I started to choke a little.  To come clean, I have some issues about how I look now that I am not, er, young anymore that I don't openly share and they were bugging me.  I had to face them.  I knew it would be cathartic for me to do as humility is good for the soul after all.  Some of you may find this funny because these days I rarely if ever wear makeup.  That doesn't mean I don't think about how I look.

A smile is my favorite thing to put on my face.

Yes I really do miss that smooth youthful skin when I see those lovely images of youthful beauty, even if have earned this beautiful patina of life people can see on my face.  And I winced a little when I remembered how I look in those photos goofy photos I enjoy taking of myself for my blog.  Somewhere in the past year I have become more obsessed with how I am aging than I have wanted to admit.  Why I even have started wishing I had some extra cash lying around to get one of those fancy modern day beauty lifts they are advertising everywhere.  That is how all of this has begun to affect me and I don't like how it makes me feel about myself.

In Pam's blog post she asked the question "Do you think that social media is adding to the pressure that women feel to look a certain way?  As I thought about this I realized that to some degree it does push this unrealistic ideal of what beauty should be. However, I also think social media is cutting both ways on this issue.  There are gals like us who are realistic about our beauty expectations and take the process in stride, even if we don't always enjoy the results and encourage our sisters to love who they are as well and then there are the others...the beauty liars who are trying to push those unrealistic expectations on all of us no matter what our age.  Sad but true and this is why we have to stick together girls!


Getting older and getting wrinkled has never really been something I worried about and I have even looked forward to since I saw an elderly couple in matching red tennis shoes walking hand in hand down a sidewalk together.  They had to me in their 90s but were still living a life together.  I wanted to live to be able to do that with the man I loved someday too.  But I am digressing here.

The necked truth

The only exception to my not feeling dread about getting older was my 29th birthday when I just wanted to crawl in a hole.  As you can see I survived that event and then I went on to discover that life really begins at 30.  Or is it 50 now?  I'm not sure how I will feel at 59; I'm 56 now.  But I have never tried to hide how old I am and find it silly to even consider trying to...after all, the neck doesn't lie.

So if you blog or if you are on Facebook I challenge you to post your own naked faced, hair covered image in support of this cause.  Remember, we are in this together girls!


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